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Miss Manners Obedient Plant - 1 Gallon

Original price $34.99 - Original price $34.99
Original price
$34.99 - $34.99
Current price $34.99

Ships Nationwide!

Size: 1 Gallon

Spring 2024 Pre-Order

This item will ship in April 2024. Need it sooner or later? Just leave a note at checkout!

Shipping Details

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For larger or bulk items we ship via freight or our own delivery trucks. You'll receive updates on your items shipping status throughout the entire process.

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Bulk items like Mulch and Topsoil can only be delivered within a 50 mile radius of our Andover, NJ location.

Warranty & Returns

Standard Warranty:

All of our trees and shrubs come with a 30-day warranty from the date of delivery. This means that if your tree/shrub is damaged in shipment or if it dies within 30 days of your delivery, we will gladly offer a replacement or credit. Should you receive your tree/shrub during dormancy, and it does not emerge from dormancy by June 1st - the same replacement policy applies.

If, within this period, you notice any issues with the health or condition of your plants, please contact us immediately. We will work with you to provide a suitable solution.

1 Year Extended Warranty Option:

For added peace of mind, we offer a 1 year extended warranty option. You can choose to purchase an extended warranty for 12% of your cart total at the time of purchase. This extended warranty covers your trees and shrubs for 1 year from the date of delivery. If your tree/shrub dies within the extended warranty period, we will provide you with a replacement plant or issue store credit for the amount of your original purchase. Shipping fees are not included.

3. Warranty Claim Process:

If you need to make a warranty claim, please follow these steps:

  • Contact our customer support team at as soon as you notice any issues with your plant's health.
  • Provide your order number, a description of the issue, and photos documenting the issue.
  • We may request additional photos or other information to assess the problem.

How are heights measured?

Tree and Shrub heights are measured from the top of the root ball or soil, measuring only the above ground portion of your tree or shrub.

How does shipping work?

We ship either UPS or via our own delivery trucks. After you place your order you'll receive notifications at each step of the way to keep you informed on your item's travels!

Many items are listed in Gallon sizes, what does that mean?

The Gallons refer to the size of the pot that the plant is in. It's simply an industry standard for sizing trees and shrubs. All of our items should have the actual height listed on the description page. If you have any questions regarding sizing, feel free to reach out to us!

Do you help with plant suggestions?

Of course! Feel free to use our chat feature to talk to a GardenPro or reach out to us at

Can I postpone my delivery date?

Sure! Include a note during checkout or reach out to us at immediately after placing your order, and we'd be happy to help!


Elevate your garden etiquette with the charming Miss Manners Obedient Plant (Physostegia virginiana 'Miss Manners'). This refined perennial is not only a visual delight but also a well-behaved addition to any garden setting.

Growing Zones: Thriving in USDA hardiness zones 3-9, the Miss Manners Obedient Plant is adaptable to a variety of climates, making it an excellent choice for gardens across the country.

Key Features:

  1. Graceful Appearance: With spikes of tubular flowers in shades of pink or lavender, this plant adds elegance to borders and flower beds. The flowers are arranged in a neat, vertical fashion, creating a tidy and sophisticated look.

  2. Compact and Controlled Growth: Unlike its more unruly counterparts, Miss Manners stays in line with a compact growth habit, reaching a mature height of 24 to 36 inches. This makes it an ideal choice for smaller gardens or as a border plant.

  3. Obedient Stems: The unique feature of this plant is its "obedient" stems. While the name might suggest otherwise, these stems can be gently repositioned, allowing you to create artful arrangements and maintain a neat appearance in your garden.

Basic Care Tips:

  • Sunlight: Plant Miss Manners in a location with full to partial sunlight. It thrives in well-draining soil but can tolerate a variety of soil types.

  • Watering: Keep the soil consistently moist but not waterlogged. Regular watering, especially during dry spells, will promote healthy growth.

  • Pruning: To encourage a bushier and more compact shape, prune the plant in late spring or early summer. Deadheading spent flowers will prolong the blooming period.

  • Fertilization: Apply a balanced, all-purpose fertilizer in the spring to provide the nutrients necessary for robust growth and abundant flowering.